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You must love yourself first. It is a prerequisite
to creating a successful and authentic union with another.
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Partnering is a choice - the choice to be
in a relationship is up to you. You have the ability to attract
your beloved and cause the relationship you desire to happen.
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Creating love is a process. Moving from
I to we requires a shift in perspective and energy. Being an
authentic couple is an evolution.
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Relationships provide an opportunity to
grow. They serve as an unofficial life stop in which you will
learn about yourself and how you can grow on your personal path.
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Communication is essential - it is the lifeblood
of the relationship.
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Negotiation will be required - there are
times when you and your partner must work through impasses.
If you do this consciously and with respect, you will learn
to create win-win outcomes.
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Your relationship will be challenged by
change. Life presents turns in the road. How you maneuver those
twists and turns determines the success of your relationships.
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You must nurture the relationship for it
to thrive. If you give it your time, attention, and effort,
it will continue to grow with each passing day.
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Renewal is the key to longevity. Happily
ever after means the ability to keep the relationship fresh
and vital.
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You will forget all of this when you fall
in love. We know these rules inherently. The challenge is to
remember them when you fall in love.